Archive for March, 2010

Poker Lessons in Plain Sight

Poker mirrors life, and everywhere I turn, I discover poker lessons in plain sight. Poker and life are both about making correct decisions while balancing priorities. Women are particularly good at balancing life situations, which is one of the many reasons women make good poker players.
If you are a woman poker player who has struggled with balancing the many facets of your life, I'd like to tell your story. Please email me directly: Donna at BigGirlPoker dot com.
Here's my most recent balancing act.
Yesterday, when our temperature in Florida finally topped 80 degrees, my 83-year-old mother announced she was giving our five dogs a bath. Even though I had hopes of briefly zoning out in front of the TV before planning strategies for next week's poker coaching, then on to a poker tournament, mom handed me a huge stack of towels.
While sitting on the couch juggling two wet, squirming Yorkies, my coffee cup, and the TV remote, I surfed into a highly underrated TV series, In Plain Sight. As I absently watched the replay of the pilot while brushing and drying Herman and Starr, I wondered how the lead woman character would fair at the poker table… especially since she lives her life on tilt, wearing her anger on her sleeve while suppressing her softer side.
A United States Marshall, attached to the Federal Witness Protection Program, Mary Shannon works in a male dominated professional world and has a dysfunctional personal life. As I watched Mary's ongoing life struggles, they reminded me of the challenges faced by virtually every women in business, including women poker players: balancing our professional life, with the relationships within our business community, while tending to the care and nurturing of our personal life.
The beauty of poker is that it gives women the ability to work through balancing these roles while taking baby steps without huge commitments. It's reassuring to know that practically any woman with the desire to learn the game can step into the poker arena and seriously compete on whatever level she chooses.
Every time we sit down at a poker table, we have the luxury of starting over. If we screwed up last time, we start fresh. If we played at our peak, we still begin anew. Poker is all about learning lessons and releasing baggage. The very nature of poker enables us to learn at lightning speed with minimal risk.
For me, poker initially was a diversion from the incessant stress of my all-consuming business life. Within the game, I found joy, truth, and lighthearted fun. Then, poker became my passion.
Now I live in paradise, surrounded by love… my husband, mom, and five dogs. I will play poker today, come home to clean dogs tonight, and coach other poker players this coming week. It is plain to me… I am a very lucky, woman poker player.
Remember my motto:
If you can't raise, don't call!
Donna Blevins
Poker Coach

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Poker Book Review

When Gus Hansen first published the poker book Every Hand Revealed in 2008, I got it and spent the better part of a week absorbing it. I was thrilled with the close-up look at the motivation behind much of Gus' action at the poker table. It gave me valuable insights that helped me open up my personal poker game.

Recently, I recommended this book to a relatively new poker player, who later said he just didn't get it, and he gave it away. So, this week, I pulled the book off my shelf and revisited it.

Do I still recommend this poker book? Absolutely.

Do I recommend this poker book to players new to poker? Maybe, IF, and this is an important if, they have the patience to work through each hand AND are serious about their game. They also must have a full understanding of how the physical aspects of Texas Hold'em, the importance of position, the value of the check-raise, and so on.

Certainly, going through 329 hands can be tedious; however, Gus' comments on every hand are priceless. Often he gives What-if's as well as his optional actions. Sure, it took me nearly a week to absorb the book, because I would carefully go through 50 or so hands and lay the book down. It is not a quick read, nor is it intended to be a casual read.

Who can benefit most from this book: Poker players who want to get into the mind of a world-class poker player and take their game to the next level.

Until next time, remember my motto:

If you can't raise, don't call.

Donna Blevins
Poker Coach, Speaker and Consultant

NOTE: I am referring this poker book because I own it, have read it and personally benefited from it. If you decide to purchase this book through my link, Amazon will pay me a referral fee. Even though it is a tiny referral fee, I thank you in advance for using my link. Donna


Poker Greats Give Visual Lessons

High Stakes Poker is one of my favorite poker television shows. Every now and then, I come across a particular hand that is a great poker lesson.
 
In this segment from Season 5, watch Patrick Antonius' style of play. Watch his eyes. You can see him thinking and evaluating. Regardless of the outcome, I want you to watch the way Patrick takes his time.
 
What do you think about the outcome of the hand?

Poker Coach Meets Husband Online

Poker is a competitive sport requiring concentration and focus. That is one of the things I love about poker.

Poker tournaments are long and often go well into the early morning hours leaving little time for social gatherings. That is one of the things I like less about poker. Sure poker is, by its very nature, a social event, however, like every other profession there are tradeoffs.

This morning, when I sat down to check my emails, Twitter, and Facebook before I dash off to a $10,000 guaranteed poker tournament at Ocala Poker, I was delighted to find two emails from my husband as well as a love note on Facebook! How sweet is that!

Sure, he is sleeping soundly about 50 feet from me… and when I say 'soundly', believe me, he sleeps. He even slept through Hurricane Andrew in 1992 when its 120 mile-an-hour winds just missed our home in Florida!

It was especially heartwarming to find his public and private messages this morning. He even found a 1999 photo he took of me in front of the Horseshoe Casino in Tunica, Mississippi, and posted it on Facebook along with the caption: "My beautiful wife." He makes me blush! (My goodness, I looked like such a 'little girl!')

Our days and nights are turned around, so I may not see him until tomorrow, especially since my intention is to win the poker tournament. Not just play in it, but win it. That is not egotistical folks, that is a vital part of my poker strategy. And, it must be your state of mind… IF you plan on being a consistent winner at the poker table.

If you only say to yourself "playing" rather than "winning", which would be more likely to happen?

How do you think of yourself as you prepare for a poker tournament? Do you see yourself struggling to amass poker chips, or do you see yourself breezing through the levels controlling the tables?

Here's the email message my husband sent me as his thought for today:

  • Practice Makes Perfect

  • Perfect practice makes for perfect results

  • Repetition makes for consistent results

  • Imperfect practice makes for imperfect results

He is so wise.

I am a lucky, lucky woman!

Today in your poker games and in life, remember my motto:

If you can't raise, don't call!

Donna Blevins
Poker Coach, Speaker and Consultant

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Poker Coach Donna Blevins’ Roots

I am proud of my roots in the Appalachian Mountains of Virginia. I grew up in a coal mining camp, 15 miles from where this log cabin once stood. (If you want a better look at the photo, click on the link above and it will open up. My mom is Peggy Reasor Blevins, the little girl, second from the right.)

 
This past weekend, it was poker for me, and visiting with family for my mom. She traveled with me the three hours across Florida to Orange Park where I had a blast playing in the No-Limit Hold'em Tournament while she spent time with one of her two surviving brothers in Jacksonville.
 
When we left to come back home Sunday, I noticed this photo carefully wrapped in a towel in the top of one of her bags. As far as we know, it is the only existing picture of her entire family: her mother (Lillian Marian Fugate), her dad (James Hopkins Reasor) along with my mom (Peggy Reasor) and her 9 brothers and sisters.
 
We figured mom was likely 8-years-old in this shot, which puts the photo around 1934. That makes grandmother 45-years-old with 10 kids! No wonder she looks weary in this photo. (Think about that the next time you whine about how long it takes to get to the money in a poker tournament!)
 
My grandmother was born in 1889 and was an amazing woman with a strong work ethic. In those days, even though there were few choices for young women, my grandmother finished school at the age of 16 and went on to college.
 
On Sunday afternoons while at LMU (Lincoln Memorial University), grandmother rode an ole' white mule the five miles from her home to the University. Then, on Fridays after classes, she rode the mule back home so she could help with the chores over the weekend.
 
She eventually met and married my grandfather, who was a traveling dry goods salesman. They literally homesteaded a mountain. It was treacherous terrain with little flat land for crops, so they raised milk cows and had the allotted tobacco patch each year.
 
My mother, whom everyone calls Mama Peggy, is now 83. She grew up during the Great Depression, and mom tells stories of getting up before daylight to milk the cows and bottle the milk. Grandpa would go to town each day to deliver the fresh milk and "trade."
 
Even in those days, Mama Peggy remembers her dad playing poker with farm hands until the wee hours of the morning. I wonder if he played my way…
 
If you can't raise, don't call.
 
Donna Blevins
Poker Coach, Speaker and Consultant
 
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Florida Poker Players Rights in Jeopardy

THIS is LONG, but it is IMPORTANT! If you live and play poker in Florida, please read and take action.

Florida poker players must take action, NOW! Following is an email I sent this morning to my state House Representative asking that he NOT support the proposed Florida  HB 1441, which is an effort to establish licensed and regulated intra-state Internet poker in Florida

Bottom line:
 
If HB1441 passes, it would effectively create
an anti-competitive monopoly
for Internet poker in Florida.

Following is the email I sent to my Florida House Representative this morning. Feel free to use it as a model for your email:

"I am a voter and a poker player who lives in your state House district. I care about my right to play online poker and I am very concerned about HB 1441, Internet Poker Consumer Protection & Revenue Generation Act of 2010, which if passed would restrict my rights as a consumer and a poker player.

While I support efforts to license and regulate Internet poker, such as those being debated in the U.S. Congress, I am troubled that the legislation being discussed in Florida would limit my online choices and create an anti-competitive monopoly for Internet poker in this state. This is not only troubling for me as a consumer, but it would be disastrous for the state. The undesirable monopoly model will not attract the critical mass of players needed to generate the expected revenue for Florida. Instead, any state legislation should find a way to capitalize on the current, robust marketplace of Internet poker sites to maximize revenue while at the same time providing the strong consumer protections afforded through regulation.

I respectfully ask you to carefully consider my objections to HB 1441, and I look forward to hearing about your position."

If you want more, the following came from Poker Players Alliance this morning:

Background

"First, what does “intra-state” poker mean? Today, when you play online poker you compete with other players from across the United States and the world. Essentially, you are part of a global network of millions of poker players. Under Florida bill HB 1441, your access would become limited to poker games only with other Florida residents. Ultimately, this means fewer players, fewer games, fewer stakes/limits and less opportunity for you to play poker how you want, when you want.

Of equal concern, HB 1441 would seek to eliminate play on the various Internet poker brand-names you know and play with today and replace them with a state-controlled monopoly provider of Internet poker in Florida. So, not only would you have less players to test your poker skills against, but you would be forced to play on the state-sanctioned, Florida-only, poker network. From a consumer standpoint this is a definite step in the wrong direction: it limits choice, destroys the competitive marketplace and dramatically reduces the need to provide player incentives like rakeback and bonuses.

To be clear, the PPA does not oppose State-based licensing and regulation of Internet poker. We strongly believe that a regulated marketplace will provide a better experience for the Internet player. In fact, that is why we have invested so much time and so many resources to push the U.S. Congress to enact a sensible federal policy of licensing and regulation. We are concerned, however, when state proposals like the one being contemplated in Florida seek to cut Internet players off from the rest of the world and limit their choice in the marketplace.

What You Can Do!

Florida poker players must let their elected officials know where they stand. Please take these two very important actions now by calling and emailing your state House Representative."

 
Please take action and call and email your state House Representative now.
 
Thank you,
 
Donna Blevins
Poker Coach and Professional Speaker

Poker Tournament for Women – Orange Park, Florida

For Immediate Release: The Poker Room, Orange Park Kennel Club, Florida (in the Jacksonville metroplex)

Dateline: Saturday, March 6, 2010, start time 2pm, buy-in $150

What: Women Poker TournamentMs March Madness

Structure: Fantastic!!

Yesterday, after I spoke with the tournament director, Anthony Furnier, he sent me the blind structure for the event. It is fantastic with plenty of play!

We start with 20,000 chips, 30-minute levels, initial blinds at 25-50. For the first three levels (90 minutes), the blinds double, however, after that they increase at a slower rate.

Bravo for you, Anthony! And, hurrah for The Poker Room at Orange Park Kennel Club!

See you THERE!

Whenever you are in a tournament, remember my motto… my primary poker strategy:

If you can't raise, don't call!

Donna Blevins
Poker Coach and Motivational Speaker

In my upcoming live poker coaching program, I share strategies to help you get past the bubble during a poker tournament. To find out more go to: Poker Pure and Simpletm

Poker Players Alliance Director, John Pappas, Testifies in Florida

DATELINE: February 16, 2010 – Florida Senate Committee Hearing

"… possible “intra-state” licensing and regulation legislation being proposed in the state… (if passed) it will restrict player pools to only Florida residents, fewer stakes/limits will be offered and ultimately mean less opportunity for you to play poker the way your accustomed to. Further, Florida is contemplating a single-source provider of online poker, i.e. one poker website. PPA is concerned that the lack of competition and consumer choice could also negatively impact the player experience." source: Poker Player Alliance

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Poker Question – How Should I Play This Hand?

 Often I get an email from a poker-coaching client that begins something like this: "How should I have played this hand?" Then, they simply tell me the two cards they were holding.
 
Regardless of the cards, my first response is always the same three words: "It all depends."
 
When you are trying to determine your correct action, there are many factors to take into consideration. For my money, the cards you hold are the last thing to consider… certainly, not the least important, but the last to consider.
 
Keep this in mind in your decision making process:
 
1. What is the game & structure?
 
2. If a poker tournament, how early or late is it?
 
3. Is it online or live?
 
4. If online, was the action loose or tight during the prior 15 minutes of play?
 
5. If live, was the action loose or tight during the prior half hour?
 
6. How many players are at the poker table?
 
7. Where are you in relationship to the button? What is your position?
 
8. How does your stack compare to the rest of the table?
 
9. Are you short-stacked or tall-stacked?
 
10. Are you nearing the money bubble?
 
There are more questions to answer before you make your decision, however, chew on these for a while.
 
Based on all these factors, even before you look at your cards, decide how strong a hand you need to enter the pot.
 
Before you enter any pot, remember my motto:
If you can't raise, don't call!
Donna Blevins
Poker Strategy Coach
 
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